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Love and trust, in the space bewteen what's said and what's heard in our life, makes all the difference in the world- Mr. Rogers
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| 02.12.04 (7:46 pm) [edit] |
Caught up on an individual v. Caught up in the circumstances surrounding them
I believe you can be over someone, the individual- but still hurt by the situation in which the relationship ended. By situation, I mean the circumstances in which you broke up, I mean the lingering questions like WTF happend. I mean in instances when you know your partner lied to you and you don't know why.
In many cases, I see people going back to people that hurt them, myself included, but is this some sick/twisted self-torture, NO. It is a way to get questions answered, to at least try to end on better terms and perhaps in some cases to get one last good lay.
That aside, I'm serious. I think as a whole people need a reasons and answers. The "it's not you, it's me line" is utter crap. And when things end abruptly or after you feel as though you've been mislead- it isn't too much to ask to get a reason or an explaination.
Someone cheats on you, how do you not take it personally? Someone abuses your trust or takes advantage of you, how do you trust again?
What I guess I'm trying to say is that, there is a difference in wanting to know why another person could hurt another so badly and wanting that person back.
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